When you are engaged:
* If you tried to kiss her, you are impolite. If you didn’t, you are not a man.
* If you flirted with her, you are a Don Juan and can’t be trusted. If you didn’t, you are a blind fool who doesn’t care about her.
* If you visited her much often, you are too pushy. If you didn’t, then you are not interested in her.
* If you care about your looks and dress very well, you are vain. If you are not chic, you are a messy guy.
* If you bought her many presents, then you are trying to buy her. If you didn’t, you are stingy.
* If you are jealous, you’d be considered stupidly ardent. If you were not jealous at all, you are insensate.